Violation of a Folkway
The situation I chose to enact my intended violation of a norm was the gymnasium. Most people at the gymnasium wear sweatshirts and shorts. A few who may be more modest than others chose to wear tracksuits. I chose to conduct my experiment in the afternoon when the gymnasium, while not filled to its full capacity, still has a number of people in it. The people at the gym were mostly housewives and young sporty and fitness oriented women and men returning from their jobs and schools. The were a total of around twenty people in the gym, engaged in various activities like riding a stationary bike, running on a treadmill, lifting weights etc.
For the purpose of my experiment, I put on a formal, dark suit, more suited to a wedding or a funeral. Immediately upon entering the gym I encountered quite a few raised eyebrows. As I went in and took my usual place at a corner weight bench, I heard the sound of a few giggles and snickers arising from the people around me. Ignoring them for the present, I went forward with my exercises, doing a bit of a warm up exercise and then lying down on the weight bench for the bench press. I finished my usual number of sets in around fifteen minutes. By that time a few newcomers had entered the gym, one of whom greeted me with a repressed smile. As I took leave some of the people who I passed by smiled at me, some openly and others trying to hide it, but none made any comment.
I felt a lot of internal shame, embarrassment and mortification while conducting this experiment this was perhaps because I expected people to have more explicit reactions to my violation of the norm than the reactions they really gave. All the time during the experiment I waited with bated breath for someone to come up with a hilarious and witty remark on my dress, but no one did.
The difficulties in carrying out the experiment were all of my own making. This social control involved with this norm is for the reason of maintaining an informal air in the gym and also for practical purposes, the formal wear being restrictive of the movement required in performing the exercises which are done in the gym. Upon reflection I have come to suspect that perhaps the reason for the muted reaction was because I already have acquired a reputation for being something of a weirdo or perhaps the norm itself is so minor that its breaking does not necessitate any social penalty. It is also possible that those particular people were extremely broadminded and if it were another group of people I might have gotten into more trouble than I did.
For the purpose of the experiment I chose a particularly mild social norm to violate, therefore the reaction too, was very mild. Most people reacted with mild amusement or surprise and no one reacted with any aggression or contempt.
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