Divorce Rates.

There are a variety of factors that contribute to the high divorce rate that has taken the globe by surprise.  No one single factor can be blamed, but a fundamental change in society that has progressed in the modern age has certainly instigated much of the rising divorce rates.  The evolution of society still clashes with older generations that are accustomed to the older ways of marriage.  This can and will only hold a magnitude of influence over the worlds divorce rate.
    In the Russian Federation, for instance, many parents are uncomfortable with a sex lifestyle that is outside of marriage.  This provokes young adults to marry at a young age in order to avoid the shame and embarrassment that accompanies promiscuous behavior.  Many of these young adults are also economically dependent on their parents for shelter as well, making the encouragement of marriage more persistent than individuals living on their own.  Unfortunately, it also pushes immature individuals into such unions that they are perhaps not ready to accept.  So when a problem or lack of communication begins to take over, it is only natural that divorce becomes an easy out. 
    A level of immaturity is also surveyed among other nations as well.  In the case of the United Arab Emirates, there is often a severe absence of communication by both men and women.  Many children are raised to suppress free expression so they never fully develop proper communication skills.  This mentality would persist into adulthood and leave a marriage barren of any sort of resolve when a problem comes into existence.  Unfortunately the motives for divorce are often concealed behind stereotypical lies.  These lies often include being reckless or hysterical.  In most cases, no one discovers why a woman may get a divorce from her husband.        
    Such divorce rates coming from immature behavior is reason for societies to be concerned.  It is not just the fact that divorce is more and more prevalent, but the reasons behind such divorce can worry a nation.  In the case of Russia, there appears to be a generational gap between old traditions and modern society.  If these two matters are not mended there is only reason for the divorce rate to go up.  To coincide with this, a higher divorce rate will inevitably lead to a higher rate of single parents and orphans. 
    Parents who bestow too much pressure on a child to stave off sexual relations in place of marriage will lead to people marrying too young.  If a couple does not have the maturity level to properly communicate through problems then they are more likely to separate.  At such a divorce, any offspring born from the brief union will live in a less secure habitat.  The parental pressure also exists in the United Arab Emirates.
    There is a severe disapproval of free expression in the United Arab Emirates, which gives cause for alarming concern.  If people are so afraid to express themselves that they are unwilling to communicate effectively with their spouse, then there may be oppressive elements at work.  Whether it is traditional culture or instigated by some governmental body, some form of tyranny exists within society.  People should not have to risk divorce in order to ward off traditional embarrassment.  The divorce rates for both Russia and the UAE, and much of the world, are certainly in need of concern.  Not just for the divorce rate, but for the cultural and generational repression that seems to often nurture the motives behind divorce.   

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